It’s crazy to think that in this very second right now. Someone’s dying. Someone’s cheating on their wife. Someone’s writing a suicide note. Someone just lost their daughter. Someone just got diagnosed with cancer. Someone just got in a car accident. Someone’s pregnant. Someone did cocaine for the first time. Someone just got raped. Someone took another person’s life. Someone hasn’t talked to their dad in years. Someone’s abusing their spouse. Someone’s signing divorce papers. Someone killed themselves. Right there. In that very second, all of that happened somewhere out there in the world.

(Source: nonchalantlyketsy, via bethatshit)

Anonymous said: Thank you, Kim.

You are welcome anon. You don’t have to be on anon you know, you can talk to me whenever and I won’t judge you. Keep your head up :) <3

Anonymous said: Even if you aren't happy, you seem happy. I can't even pretend.

I don’t see how lol. I’ve been getting crap all day for being a huge whiner and never being okay. I’m sorry things are so hard for you right now. And pretending is just too hard sometimes, especially when you just don’t have the energy for it, because you barely have the energy to make it through the day. But you shouldn’t have to pretend to be happy, people should take you exactly as you are. I always say for any situation in life whether it be good or bad theres a lesson to be learned and I guess from this, you could learn that you’re still here fighting from day to day, and you’ll learn who will stick by you when things are at the worst. Because those are the people who are worth sticking with.

But things will get better for you, I promise. Please don’t give up.

Anonymous said: I just want to be you. I want to know how you can still be happy after all you've been through. I've tried and I can't. You're just so perfect. I don't think I've gone through nearly as much as you, yet I still can't figure out how to be happy. You don't know how much I envy you.

You honestly would not say that if you went through a day of being me, I promise. I’m not even close to be perfect. Don’t envy me. I’m sure you’re great how you are. :) And life isn’t a contest of who has had it worse, you have had what you’ve had, and everyone handles things differently. It doesn’t mean you have any less of a right to feel sad or upset about something just because you don’t think it was as bad as what someone else has gone through. I’m definitely not happy, I just try and hope that no matter what, I’m going to get better. And yeah people can say on here that I’m hoping for nothing, and they don’t expect me to get better, but even if there’s literally the smallest light peeking through the dark, I’m gonna look for it and hold onto it. Things will get better, you’ll be okay in the end. Your problems will always matter too. You can say someone has it worse, but it doesn’t change what you have, and so it shouldn’t make you feel in any way that what you’re going through isn’t important.